Most of us have spent a lifetime trying to become something else for someone else whether it was to gain love, approval or acceptance. For some, it was simply born out of fear-fear of ridicule or judgment. If we always look outside of ourselves for answers or happiness, we will never know what it means to be the ruler of our own lives. Others cannot love us enough for us to feel loved. They cannot accept us enough for us to feel wanted and accepted. That has to happen within. Emotional Sovereignty is about governing your own life, filling the voids within, and being responsible for the life you lead.